Disciplining children can get old rather quickly, but it is a critical element of parenting. Though it may not seem to bear immediate fruit, you will notice changes over time Lord willing. For example, our oldest one is much quicker to obey than the younger ones, and both of the older ones can usually sit and behave in Church. Wow, aren't we lucky! No, it's called work!
The Scripture is adamant that we neither provoke our children to wrath nor exercise too much leniency. It does take time to discern when and how to be gracious, yet it can be done. For example, when the child is seriously ill, we are quick to be gracious, though not condoning any particular sin. However, when there is nothing provoking the child, the rod is always quick to its work.
Will my children be afraid of me if I use the paddle? No, if you do it right. It actually builds respect, and children are out playing and hugging again in just a few minutes after a spanking. It gets to the point quickly, and then the day goes on. Bottoms were made for sitting and spanking; that's why they're padded.
Therefore, love your children by disciplining them when it is needed, and, remember, delayed obedience is disobedience.
To Him be the glory! Amen!
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